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Anxiety about the state of the world

   Dear Lady Jane, I can’t stop checking the news. Between the climate reports, the economy, and politics, I feel paralyzed. My friends tell me to ‘just log off,’ but that feels irresponsible. I feel guilty for planning for my future (like saving...

Is “quiet quitting” ruining my relationship?

  I keep reading about ‘quiet quitting’ at work, but I feel like I’m doing that in my relationship. My partner and I don’t fight. There’s no toxicity. We function really well as roommates. But the spark is completely gone. I find myself staying...

Future Mother In-Law

Dear Lady Jane, I am getting married and I invited my best friend growing up to be my maid of honor. My best friend over the years has lost a lot of her hearing (she does have hearing aids) and we both are fluent in sign language. At times, she can be a bit impatient...

Exhausted in Finance (Male, 34)

Dear Lady Jane, On paper, I have the perfect life. I just got promoted to VP, I bought an apartment in the city, and I have a great circle of friends. But every morning when I wake up, I feel a sense of dread so heavy I can barely get out of bed. I feel ungrateful...

Crowded Marriage

Crowded Marriage.. My husband and I have been married for two years, and we just had our first baby. His mother is… a lot. She comes over unannounced, criticizes my parenting, and rearranges my kitchen. The problem isn’t her—it’s him. Every time I bring it up, he...
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